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I was spanning through the tube the other day and saw titles for such as "Queer Eye For The Straight Guy", "Will and Grace", "The A-List: New York" and my personal favorite "Girls Who Like Boys Who Like Boys." I started to think do gay men have it good or am I just reaching?

1) Women love cuddling with gay men. I have female friends who have told me they will get naked in front of their gay friends or cuddle with them because there is no chance things will get sexual. Then I said "you could get naked in fron t of me and I it won't get sexual." Of course that didn't work but I had to give it a try.

2) Gay men can get away with being inappropraite to women with no fear of facing consequences. If I grab a female's butt she will go get her 6'4 boyfriend and his monstrous friends to show me how to treat a lady and square dance all over my body. If a gay guy grabbed her butt in front of the same guys they would laugh it off as a joke and say "Look at Sero feeling up my girlfriend."

3) Before a couple of months ago getting married in New York City was not happening for gays or lesbians. That was great because if things didn't workout you could always back out and keep it moving. Now you have to deal with divorce, leaving the seat up, and now have to divide the silverware?

This does not mean I want to switch teams but I want to find a way to get those perks though.